'Should I tell my partner that I used to be fat?'
- Thread starter Jim
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Minerva
...we're sinking deeper.
This one made me laugh. Theoretically speaking, why should she be terrified of losing her OH if she puts on a few, the guy isn't right for her to begin with.
I was a size 16 when I met my OH, balooned to size 22 while with him (he put on a few as well though, and was about 20st when he met me haha), but, neither of us cared, we loved each other for who we ARE as people.
Last year we both realised we weren't feeling healthy and lost 20 stone between us TOGETHER. At the end of the day, we support each other.
So technially, in a true relationship there should be no fear over such things. Your partner will and should accept you no matter what happens on the surface... after all it's what's on the inside that counts.
I was a size 16 when I met my OH, balooned to size 22 while with him (he put on a few as well though, and was about 20st when he met me haha), but, neither of us cared, we loved each other for who we ARE as people.
Last year we both realised we weren't feeling healthy and lost 20 stone between us TOGETHER. At the end of the day, we support each other.
So technially, in a true relationship there should be no fear over such things. Your partner will and should accept you no matter what happens on the surface... after all it's what's on the inside that counts.
