ahhh what to do!!!

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jellybeans

Full Member

• 2 April 2009

• #1

ok so im seeing a friend i havent seen in years i have cancelled twice and now i have arranged to meet her at a childrens play center and she wants to meet at 12 so we can have something to eat one problem...... i dont eat lol and i dont wanna tell her bout diet and if i turn up and say im not hungry that might make her feel uncomfortable bout eating ahhhh dilema

 

XxAbbiexX23

Dieting & Mummy To Ethan

• 2 April 2009

• #2

Why not tell her about diet? After all, it's nothing you should be ashamed of! You'll most probably find that she admires that you have the willpower to do something like this. It's up to you ultimately, but it would save awkwardness and you'd be able to focus on catching up.

 

GirlyChick

On a mission

• 2 April 2009

• #3

I agree. You should just tell her you are on this fab diet and how healthy you are going to be. You can meet for a meal afterwards and celebrate you new slinky body

 

ChellyWellyBoot

I will be skinny again!!!

• 2 April 2009

• #4

Unless she is really *****y and will make you feel crap about the diet then I would tell her!

Otherwise just say oh im sorry Im not feeling hungry.. Or Ive got a big dinner planned later, but go ahead and eat I dont mind...

 

summergurl

♥3 Years Maintaining♥

• 2 April 2009

• #5

Tell her!!!

A friend should understand why you are doing this even if they dont agree with it

Tell her you dont mind her eating infront of you and that you are just appreciating time being spent with them catching up

 

IrishMum

A little of everything!

• 3 April 2009

• #6

I understand how you feel- I don't want anyone to know I'm on it yet either.
I've use the 'tummy-bug' excuse a few times now (with different people!) and its been fine, plus I have an 'excuse' to drink lots of water- "I'm afraid of getting dehydrated".

 

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Cruiksl

Silver Member

• 3 April 2009

• #7

It's a difficult one if it's someone you haven't seen in a while and can be daunting.

If you're not comfortable telling her - just say you had a late breakfast and you're not hungry.

 

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SUPASLIMMA

SUPASLIMMA

• 3 April 2009

• #8

I must annoy my friends and family 'cos I dont stop talking about LT, just as I always talked about cooking a recipes before. As long as you dont beak your diet.....go with the flow, I'm sure you will have a lovely time.

 

summergurl

♥3 Years Maintaining♥

• 3 April 2009

• #9

SUPASLIMMA said:

I must annoy my friends and family 'cos I dont stop talking about LT, just as I always talked about cooking a recipes before. As long as you dont beak your diet.....go with the flow, I'm sure you will have a lovely time.

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haha snap! but i also talk about recipes! i have a 'fetish' (haha) for cooking at the min! Actually have just finished baking coconut muffins and smartie muffins! lol