Loopy!
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I'm feeling really low at the moment.
To cut a long story short, my elder son had been misbehaving at school and at home so the family thought it best he stay with my dad for a while to help. This was 3 months ago.
Today, he gets into a fight at school, realises he's going to be in trouble and runs away from school (he's 11 so in seniors).
First my husband and I here about it is when the school phone to see if he's with us, que me and my husband (i'm at work) dropping everything to look for him. I ring my dad who already knows about this - my son had phoned my younger sister and was going to meet her.
I try phoning my sister but she constantly diverts the call. I get my mum to phone her and he's then on his way round to my mums.
When I get there she's (mum) really quiet with me, I ask why Kate wouldn't answer the phone and her responses are short and curt. I said I know somethings going on. In the end she blurted out that I was a crap mother, that I look down my nose at everyone and that I'm a stuck up cow. She also said my son didn't want to go back to living with my & DH.
I asked her when was the last time she came to see my baby (H), her reply - 'I really don't care about him'.
H goes to nursery twice a week and my elder sister who has also been helping with my older son has him twice a week too. She's always really critical of my and if I don't hug J (my elder) as soon as I step through the door she accuses me of not caring about him.
Fed up of my family interfering we've decided J is back with us permantly and H will go to nursery 4 times a week.
I'm sick to death of them telling me i'm a bad mum and I just want them out of my life.
Nursery is now costing me double so I'm worried about money, worried about my elder, worrying about having no family support etc and worrying about whether I can keep paying for this diet.
This was longer than I expected.
Sigh:sigh:
To cut a long story short, my elder son had been misbehaving at school and at home so the family thought it best he stay with my dad for a while to help. This was 3 months ago.
Today, he gets into a fight at school, realises he's going to be in trouble and runs away from school (he's 11 so in seniors).
First my husband and I here about it is when the school phone to see if he's with us, que me and my husband (i'm at work) dropping everything to look for him. I ring my dad who already knows about this - my son had phoned my younger sister and was going to meet her.
I try phoning my sister but she constantly diverts the call. I get my mum to phone her and he's then on his way round to my mums.
When I get there she's (mum) really quiet with me, I ask why Kate wouldn't answer the phone and her responses are short and curt. I said I know somethings going on. In the end she blurted out that I was a crap mother, that I look down my nose at everyone and that I'm a stuck up cow. She also said my son didn't want to go back to living with my & DH.
I asked her when was the last time she came to see my baby (H), her reply - 'I really don't care about him'.
H goes to nursery twice a week and my elder sister who has also been helping with my older son has him twice a week too. She's always really critical of my and if I don't hug J (my elder) as soon as I step through the door she accuses me of not caring about him.
Fed up of my family interfering we've decided J is back with us permantly and H will go to nursery 4 times a week.
I'm sick to death of them telling me i'm a bad mum and I just want them out of my life.
Nursery is now costing me double so I'm worried about money, worried about my elder, worrying about having no family support etc and worrying about whether I can keep paying for this diet.
This was longer than I expected.
Sigh:sigh: