thefutureisbright
Banned
Hi everyone, I have found myself in a dilemma and its really getting to me....
I am meant to be going to a magaluf tomorrow on a hen weekend (home late monday night). I really do not want to go, but I cant tell my friend cos I dont want to let her down. I feel quite upset and frustrated about the whole matter.
LT is one reason I dont want to go -everyone will be drinking and eating - and although I know I dont want to do that - I dont want to listen to people putting me under pressure to drink - also the weather forecast says rain and storms when we are there so that means I will be stuck inside probably the whole time - and I dont really want everyone knowing im on LT.
Also I have put on so much weight I have no clothes to fit me and I dont want to buy new ones. Also all the girls going are really slim. Also I am justing starting my own business and I am so stressed and have so much to do...
I dont want to go and ruin it for everyone but the response from a couple of people I have told that I dont want to go is so bad that I feel I cant drop out.... i feel trapped.
what should i do????????????????
I am meant to be going to a magaluf tomorrow on a hen weekend (home late monday night). I really do not want to go, but I cant tell my friend cos I dont want to let her down. I feel quite upset and frustrated about the whole matter.
LT is one reason I dont want to go -everyone will be drinking and eating - and although I know I dont want to do that - I dont want to listen to people putting me under pressure to drink - also the weather forecast says rain and storms when we are there so that means I will be stuck inside probably the whole time - and I dont really want everyone knowing im on LT.
Also I have put on so much weight I have no clothes to fit me and I dont want to buy new ones. Also all the girls going are really slim. Also I am justing starting my own business and I am so stressed and have so much to do...
I dont want to go and ruin it for everyone but the response from a couple of people I have told that I dont want to go is so bad that I feel I cant drop out.... i feel trapped.
what should i do????????????????