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Banned
oh=other half / partner / spouse lol
Ok last year oh parents booked a holiday abroad would of been my first holiday abroad, they paid for it etc taking my newborn and my 8 yr old too...
i ended up having to go bk to wales because i became ill with postnatal depression really bad so i couldnt go... anyway they all still went..
then nov last yr oh was asked again all booked i wasnt asked because of my let down.. they went away again.. (i was still in wales)
(am up here in leic giving it another go living together)Then this year his parents have booked another hol yet again with my oh again.. i am like i want to go so i have to pay for myself and the kids £1300 WTF week in greece top hotel etc... need money by 2nd april as due to fly out 2nd june..
am so so gutted, they wont pay for me again cus i let them down last year as i was ill (but i dont think they quite understand) OH to me is selfish and a golden boy... (i know i know)
my mum says she can understand why they expect me to pay but not why my oh prefers to use his holidays up from work to go away with his parents (ok all paid for i guess)
we sposed to be living up here, i dont have nbot passed my test yet, and i be left alone for a week? Wtf
is this fair? what can i do?
all advice welcome
thanks for reading
Ok last year oh parents booked a holiday abroad would of been my first holiday abroad, they paid for it etc taking my newborn and my 8 yr old too...
i ended up having to go bk to wales because i became ill with postnatal depression really bad so i couldnt go... anyway they all still went..
then nov last yr oh was asked again all booked i wasnt asked because of my let down.. they went away again.. (i was still in wales)
(am up here in leic giving it another go living together)Then this year his parents have booked another hol yet again with my oh again.. i am like i want to go so i have to pay for myself and the kids £1300 WTF week in greece top hotel etc... need money by 2nd april as due to fly out 2nd june..
am so so gutted, they wont pay for me again cus i let them down last year as i was ill (but i dont think they quite understand) OH to me is selfish and a golden boy... (i know i know)
my mum says she can understand why they expect me to pay but not why my oh prefers to use his holidays up from work to go away with his parents (ok all paid for i guess)
we sposed to be living up here, i dont have nbot passed my test yet, and i be left alone for a week? Wtf
is this fair? what can i do?
all advice welcome
thanks for reading