I think my problem is that i wear baggy clothes because i don't own anything that actually fit me. I have just got a size 12 mini dress to motivate me to slim into it for summer and you'll never guess what, i fit in it!! I can't believe it. will do pics in a bit. I have just found a size 14 skirt and it's a bit lose, so i am getting there, maybe i just did not know how far i got because i was wearing huge clothes?