Blonde Logic
Yes. You can.
We were told last night at group, that one of the ladies called the LLC in the week and said she would not be returning. She said she did not like to plan and did not like the group.
I must say, I was not terribly surprised. ANd if I am honest, I did not think she was going to really get from the plan what it offered as she was still well and truly cruisng the river of denial.
SHe was the largest of the group - by I would guess about 3 or more stone. (Now I have that dubios distinction )
But sadly, she did not believe she had a weight problem. WHenever a situation was mentioned, about strangers reaction to our size, she'd claim that has never been a problem...if we spoke about the physical pain we experience, she claims nothing ever hurt....if we talked about overeating, she claimed she did not gorgeo or binge ever, etc.
It's very sad, how our minds can either be our best friends or our worst enemies.
I fel very bad that she has left - she was well on her way - lost over a stone the first week and signicant losses the following two. But she was not ready to face her demons I suppose.
Well, I wish her luck.....I worry about her as her health is surely severl compromised by her weight. I just found it a real shame.
Thinking about it,she is the third member to leave but the other two never returned after the first night. So now we are a group of 8. In a way thats nice - more 'intimate and safe' if you know what I mean....but I just wish everyone could get the benefits from this that I am. SOmedays I just want to run up to every one I see that could benefit and 'share the light!'.
And again, it reaffirms, as things do daily, how much changing our head is the most major part of this journey.
I must say, I was not terribly surprised. ANd if I am honest, I did not think she was going to really get from the plan what it offered as she was still well and truly cruisng the river of denial.
SHe was the largest of the group - by I would guess about 3 or more stone. (Now I have that dubios distinction )
But sadly, she did not believe she had a weight problem. WHenever a situation was mentioned, about strangers reaction to our size, she'd claim that has never been a problem...if we spoke about the physical pain we experience, she claims nothing ever hurt....if we talked about overeating, she claimed she did not gorgeo or binge ever, etc.
It's very sad, how our minds can either be our best friends or our worst enemies.
I fel very bad that she has left - she was well on her way - lost over a stone the first week and signicant losses the following two. But she was not ready to face her demons I suppose.
Well, I wish her luck.....I worry about her as her health is surely severl compromised by her weight. I just found it a real shame.
Thinking about it,she is the third member to leave but the other two never returned after the first night. So now we are a group of 8. In a way thats nice - more 'intimate and safe' if you know what I mean....but I just wish everyone could get the benefits from this that I am. SOmedays I just want to run up to every one I see that could benefit and 'share the light!'.
And again, it reaffirms, as things do daily, how much changing our head is the most major part of this journey.