i used to be over 14 stones after the birth of my daughter and it took a while to get my weight down, pre pregnancy i was a small size 10, wasn't a size 8 because i couldn't get my thighs into them ( too much muscle,lol) but after the birth i was determined to get my weight back down to about 9 stone and i kept losing a couple of stone and then putting a bit back on, my daughter is now 7 and i've just managed to get below 10 stone for the very first time since her birth, whats different? i have left my husband and i'm now more determined and much much happier than i have ever been and now i truly believe i can do this. My advice to use is to take a good look and see if there is something that is troubling you or that is holding you back, secondly i love reading other peoples success stories it really gives me a lift to see someone else succeed and thirdly i had some jeans that were too small for me which i was determind to get into which i now have.hope i've not bored you too much
i really hope you lose the weight and good luck !!!!