hard decisions

ive had to make the decision not to go to my parents until i am off ss. i took my little chap there for 5 days and i cheated almost every day... there isnt the support there that i have at home. my mother feel the need to feed and im not strong enough to say no. my little guy is going to go for a visit by himself in a couple of weeks but i just cant go. my first goal is to be back in my 34'' jeans for my dads 60th party (im also having a day off and eating) so i have to wait until the end of aug until i see them next.

is anyone else having similar issues?

Good luck. I hope all works out well for u.

Good Luck - I have to not go around the Grand Parents, they are definite feeders, they know im on this diet but still bought some yum yums round to my house this weekend when they came to visit (D'oh!) but we will stay strong! They looked so delicious!

not the same sort of problem exactly but i haven't told my darling OH's parents... not because they would feed me but because i don't want them to pass any judgements as i have done the diet before and put the weight back on...

just worry about people making presumptions when i am trying to work really hard this time around

Yeah I also have the inlays coming to stay this weekend not looking forward to that they are big foodies!

Inlaws even ha ha

This might be necessary to allow you to get on with the diet. My pal is having probs with women at work constantly trying to tempt her to eat stuff like doughnuts and big cookies - 'one won't hurt you' they say most days. She is on CD 810 and very determined to make it through. She has told them so. Yet they still do it!

With family it is even harder to say no so you are probs doing the right thing.