peggypig
Silver Member
I have a lovely son aged 30 but the problem with him is he easily gets black moods hes not been able to get a job if he falls out with his girlfriend like now he goes into a decline and brings me down with him.
He is my only one and I really feel for him.Ive arranged doctor appointments and they gave him some antidepressants he took them for a few weeks and then said he felt ok, I explained he needed to take them till the doc said he could stop them. He had a bad episode of depression last October Im worried when he gets down as he was self harming too relieve his frustration.
I try to help him out with money sure his flat is tidy he is a real untidy person
The thing is I really dont have any money myself, I know I do too much for him but I dont know what to do for the best,he feels he has nothing to look forward to hes just completed 4 weeks work experience and he loved the work but there was no job at the end of it,he feels like theyve just used him for free labour,but that is the system to try and get people into work he knows that but it has got to him.
Should I just leave him to deal with it in his own way?
Any advice would be helpful.
He is my only one and I really feel for him.Ive arranged doctor appointments and they gave him some antidepressants he took them for a few weeks and then said he felt ok, I explained he needed to take them till the doc said he could stop them. He had a bad episode of depression last October Im worried when he gets down as he was self harming too relieve his frustration.
I try to help him out with money sure his flat is tidy he is a real untidy person
The thing is I really dont have any money myself, I know I do too much for him but I dont know what to do for the best,he feels he has nothing to look forward to hes just completed 4 weeks work experience and he loved the work but there was no job at the end of it,he feels like theyve just used him for free labour,but that is the system to try and get people into work he knows that but it has got to him.
Should I just leave him to deal with it in his own way?
Any advice would be helpful.