URGH need to vent

sorry guys.
Basically my dad and i have had a very bad relationship!
He hit me as a kid and when i moved out i had nothing to do with him. Invited him to my wedding to please my other family members. He sat there with a mood on. ate and left.
Was invited to my sons 1st birthday didnt come. Was invited to my 30th, didnt come.
So today my sister who lives next door to him (not through choice and cant stand him either) gets a text from my aunt saying your dad said bring the baby to him so he can play in the garden!!!

What a cheek!!!!!!!

Firstly no contact since my son was bout 3 months old which was when he came over to visit and meet his first grandchild and then bypasses me and asks his sister to put my sister in that predicament!

Hes a nasty piece of work and i dont really want him round my son!

URGH! If my sister didnt live next to him there would be no contac t what soever.

Oh my what a horrible situation you must have been so angry
To jusst say out of blue hand your son in hes not a parcel to be handed in when he feels like it
Your son wouldnt even know him
Do you think and you clearly know him best he was trying to restore contact with you in his own
Cack handed way
How do you get on with your auntie if you dont mind me asking
Families eh
Lesley x

Hiya

Nope he would have seen a chance to see my son and tried any way to see him.
He loves email and I have told my aunt who I row with often over my father, that I am more than happy for him to see him if he makes the effort. This was sat this happened and he could have easily emailed and said how's mikey? But he hasn't.
If that was me? I would be straight in touch if that was all it took.
X

One day he will regret the time he has missed with his family
Hope things are better now xx