newlifenow
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I'm 27 and single and Ive seriously wanted to meet someone for the past year or so. My weight has always been something thats held me back and Ive no idea how i look physically to the outside world. I'm so confident in every other area of my life and its so contradicting that this is a huge problem for me.
I know that someone should love you for who you are and not what you look like but i couldn't blame a man for not wanting to be with me at 14 stone and 5ft 5 high. I go on internet dates and i am soooo worried that im ten times bigger in reality than my photo.
My weight is something that is on my mind twenty four hours a day. Not one of my family or friends ever ever mentioned my weight or suggested a loose a bit etc its like the biggest taboo in the world. I am not big headed but i know im good looking and never had trouble meeting men but i certainly have trouble keeping them and i believe most of it is down to my weight.
I wonder why iv let this go on so long or have i been unsubconciously using my weight as a weapon to avoid a relationship and in turn getting hurt.
Can anyone relate? Am I mad?
I know that someone should love you for who you are and not what you look like but i couldn't blame a man for not wanting to be with me at 14 stone and 5ft 5 high. I go on internet dates and i am soooo worried that im ten times bigger in reality than my photo.
My weight is something that is on my mind twenty four hours a day. Not one of my family or friends ever ever mentioned my weight or suggested a loose a bit etc its like the biggest taboo in the world. I am not big headed but i know im good looking and never had trouble meeting men but i certainly have trouble keeping them and i believe most of it is down to my weight.
I wonder why iv let this go on so long or have i been unsubconciously using my weight as a weapon to avoid a relationship and in turn getting hurt.
Can anyone relate? Am I mad?