F4ye
Full Member
hi all
only in my 3rd week at sw and have been getting along well - sticking to my plan well and increased exercise, now i don't have so much to loose about 1.5 - 2 stone however when i got weighed in this week on tuesday (i have been so upset it has taken me until today to post) i had gained 1/2 a pound which is fine i can work on that but i didn't need people in the group saying loud enough for me to hear "she shouldn't be here anyway its not for people like her, she's already slim."
actually, i am overweight for my height and need to shift my bmi into a healthier place, i have 2 children and want to set a good example to them and be fit and healthy and involved in their life so i joined sw to help me do this.
i am feeling really disappointed with that comment, despite being very aware that everybody has their own journey and that we will be at different stages etc i did not expect anyone to be mean, especially when these are people who surely understand how being over weight can make you feel.
should i say anything to the consultant and risk upsetting things further or keep quiet put it down to experience and carry on?
thanks for reading this, F4ye x
only in my 3rd week at sw and have been getting along well - sticking to my plan well and increased exercise, now i don't have so much to loose about 1.5 - 2 stone however when i got weighed in this week on tuesday (i have been so upset it has taken me until today to post) i had gained 1/2 a pound which is fine i can work on that but i didn't need people in the group saying loud enough for me to hear "she shouldn't be here anyway its not for people like her, she's already slim."
actually, i am overweight for my height and need to shift my bmi into a healthier place, i have 2 children and want to set a good example to them and be fit and healthy and involved in their life so i joined sw to help me do this.
i am feeling really disappointed with that comment, despite being very aware that everybody has their own journey and that we will be at different stages etc i did not expect anyone to be mean, especially when these are people who surely understand how being over weight can make you feel.
should i say anything to the consultant and risk upsetting things further or keep quiet put it down to experience and carry on?
thanks for reading this, F4ye x