melarnz
Silver Member
It's my sister in laws wedding today, and (a bit selfishly) I'm nervous!!
I feel a bit weird as it's not even my wedding, but I feel a bit exposed!! It's the first time that I would have seen a lot of hubbies family and friends, and I have nothing to hide behind. Previously, I would have worn something comfy and mumsy and hid behind the kids (generally picking them up to hid myself). However, there is no way I can do that today as 1) they are bridemaids. 2) I am wearing killer heels, so probably won't be able to walk, let alone carry!! Also, my dress is bright pink, so no shying away in the background today!! It is also quite fitted, so no floaty material. Also, the bride tells anyone who stands still long enough how much weight I have lost, and it can get a bit embaressing.
I'm still a size 16, so I don't know if I'm going to look like a big girl who's wearing a dress she shouldn't be wearing!! Mutton and lamb springs to mind!!!
I know no one is going to be taking any notice of me, but I'm a bit scared to be going so full on.
I feel a bit weird as it's not even my wedding, but I feel a bit exposed!! It's the first time that I would have seen a lot of hubbies family and friends, and I have nothing to hide behind. Previously, I would have worn something comfy and mumsy and hid behind the kids (generally picking them up to hid myself). However, there is no way I can do that today as 1) they are bridemaids. 2) I am wearing killer heels, so probably won't be able to walk, let alone carry!! Also, my dress is bright pink, so no shying away in the background today!! It is also quite fitted, so no floaty material. Also, the bride tells anyone who stands still long enough how much weight I have lost, and it can get a bit embaressing.
I'm still a size 16, so I don't know if I'm going to look like a big girl who's wearing a dress she shouldn't be wearing!! Mutton and lamb springs to mind!!!
I know no one is going to be taking any notice of me, but I'm a bit scared to be going so full on.