SammyE
Silver Member
Now Im no skinny little thing, Im over weight and I know it but my older sister, lost 8 stone with weight watchers about 6 years ago, she kept it off for three years, she met a man and got married nearly 3 years ago... since the wedding she has ballooned, I was comparing a picture of her before she went on her diet and now and she looks bigger now then she did before, so Im guessing she has gained at least 8 - 9 stone, probably more in 3 years.
And her eating isnt cutting down, last time I ate with her, I was open mouthed at how greedy she had become, it was pasta so I had asked for a small bowl... and my mum took half back off my plate, my sister told my mum to stick it on her plate... I was full on finishing mine, she ate her own and the extra my mum took from mine... there was garlic bread on the table, I had been good and not taken any... there was two bits per person, my sister ate 6 peices... then had afters.
Im really concerned about her, it seems such a shame for her to have lost so much weight, she was a size 10 at the end of her diet, Im a size 18 and she doesnt fit into my clothes now so she must be a 22plus as i can get into clothes a size too small with oh so attractive over hang but she couldnt even get my jeans done up and she is smaller frame then me, Ive always been stocky, wider shoulders and 3 inches taller, longer limbs etc.
My sister is very emotional, crys at the drop of a hat, has always been the same, if I say anything it will be taken as me being nasty but Im really worried that her weight gain is so rapid and normally people would see how much food there is and if there is say 8 things and 4 people, you would take 2 but she just seemed to be eating as quick as possible so she could get more before everyone took their share.
I dont want to turn around and say "your fat, stop eating" but im just worried how much weight she will gain in the next few years if she doesnt do anything about it.
And her eating isnt cutting down, last time I ate with her, I was open mouthed at how greedy she had become, it was pasta so I had asked for a small bowl... and my mum took half back off my plate, my sister told my mum to stick it on her plate... I was full on finishing mine, she ate her own and the extra my mum took from mine... there was garlic bread on the table, I had been good and not taken any... there was two bits per person, my sister ate 6 peices... then had afters.
Im really concerned about her, it seems such a shame for her to have lost so much weight, she was a size 10 at the end of her diet, Im a size 18 and she doesnt fit into my clothes now so she must be a 22plus as i can get into clothes a size too small with oh so attractive over hang but she couldnt even get my jeans done up and she is smaller frame then me, Ive always been stocky, wider shoulders and 3 inches taller, longer limbs etc.
My sister is very emotional, crys at the drop of a hat, has always been the same, if I say anything it will be taken as me being nasty but Im really worried that her weight gain is so rapid and normally people would see how much food there is and if there is say 8 things and 4 people, you would take 2 but she just seemed to be eating as quick as possible so she could get more before everyone took their share.
I dont want to turn around and say "your fat, stop eating" but im just worried how much weight she will gain in the next few years if she doesnt do anything about it.