blufizz
Full Member
not sure where to begin with this prob and its prob gunna sound odd anyways but what the heck lol..
Ok heres the thing...ive been chatting to a guy online( yeh go on get the sniggering out of the way plz )
Were only chatting and kinda getting to know each other....its not from a dating sight or any other sleazy place and we chat in msn some nights and email most days...ive seen a pic he says is him....but i dont do pics online-never have-and seeing as were just chatting dont feel the urge to splash my visog everywhere...
He seems a really nice guy and trust me ive chatted to and met loads of toads over the yrs lol (from online and in real life)..
hes not asked for a pic or anything and ive not described what i look like in much detail (could be good sign as most wanna know ya bra size form word go!)hes hinting at meeting up some time as we live not fsr from each other...but i kinda dont say anything other than a vague maybe...partly cos im not sure how much i trust a guy from online and partly cos of other possible compatability issues...
My problem is....do i tell him im a member of slimming world or not???
And if i do will he think me someone who has let herself go or someone who has no control where food is concerned?
Ive asked leading questions re what hes attracted to in a woman but he doesnt ever mention body stuff?
I know this is only at the mo an online friendship and i do have another male online friend not just him...but somehting feels diffo with him....we have good conversations and share a lot of life-similarities...
ive not been in a relationship of any kind for over 5 yrs now....
dont get me wrong i can chat to guys in real life-flirt a little even but only cos i dont actually beleive any of them fancy me so i feel protected - prob why i had been happy to pile on the weight and use it as an excuse for being on my own or even as a way of being on my own so therefore not likely to get hurt again.hmmm bit too deep huh?)
and i know where this is leading- us meeting- and then it could possibly lead to something very much in the real world.....just dont know if my weight issues will put him off or stop me or spoil things????
maybe im thinking too far ahead here....just doesnt sit well with me not feeling able to mention sw..he wonders where i pop off to now on wed nights lol...
sorry if ive rambled but ive no one else to ask...x