I'm glad you realise that because it's just what I was about to say. I've been the 'thinner' one and didn't give a monkeys what my friends weighed and have been the 'fatter' one and came to realise they felt exactly the same! Just remember you're doing something about it and you will get there. Go out and have some serious funMy friends aren't bothered what I look like its all my own demons in my head.
My husband is of work and he's going to have a look for a new top for me (he used to work in fashion so knows what to pick).
Big Bear!!!
ps Marlyn Monroe was a size 16....and the most lusted after woman of her time! love those curves xxx