embarrassed about my clothes

Im getting really fed up trying to find trousers that fit right, I carry all my weight in my tummy and behind, so trousers that fit me in the tummy are really baggy in the legs and I end up looking like a clown :sigh:, at the moment im finding everthing I wear looks horrible. Its even more embarrassing the fact that I weigh 3 stone more than my husband and not even his clothes fit me anymore
I know it wont be like this forever as im doing something about it now! but still it gets me down, 9 years ago I was a size 14-16 and I used to get down about my weight then!! nowadays Id give my right arm to be that size again, If only I could go back and give myself a good taking too
Oh well time to look forward not back

wheezy i have the same problem i loose weight in my legs and bum first and carry it all in my tummy so my trousers always look to big. wide leg trousers help and flarey shaped skirts are good .

thanks for that I was looking at some wide leg trousers the other day and didnt know if it was worth trying them on. I think I'll go back and try them on.
Also well done on your weightloss so far that brilliant!!! you must be chuffed with yourself, keep it up x

i am sooo happy have hit a wall lately but hopefully im finally over it this week. wide leg trousers are deff good as they are ment to be baggy gok wan told me lol

Same here, everything is piled onto my tummy and it looks like I'm pregnant! I find George at Asda is good for trousers and they are super cheap too =]

I completely sympathise. I seem to have double stomach thing going on - a fat tummy, and then, I assume because of the large water filled cyst I had in my ovary a post pregnancy flabby bit below my belly button.

I have thighs the width of a man's head, so my problem's more that the waists fit but they're too tight around the legs (if they even get up past the epically massive fat stores my femurs are clinging to).