Jane-D
Full Member
Hey guys, going through a really bad time at the moment...As some of you know I split up with my husband earlier on this year, and I was also made redundant.....I started a new job 3 weeks ago and have been training (civil service)...
There has been a guy on my training whom I have had a lot of chemistry with, we really hit it off and have kind of been seeing each other, I have just become besotted with him, (like a flippin teenager, its ridiculous).....However he also split with his ex earlier this year and has a son, whom he travels a long way to see every weekend....It seems that he is struggling, as he had intended to get his life sorted out, including his career and had promised himself not to get involved with anyone for a while....Neither of us was looking for this it just happened......He has explained he can't keep his mind off me but isn't sure what he wants right now.....I can't believe after such a short period of time knowing him how much this is hurting me.....
I guess I just got involved too soon after my seperation.....I was getting on track and have always been a happy go lucky kind of girl, but also a sensitive soul....I don't know what to do....
I am wondering, do I just break it up and try and get over it asap, (this would hurt so much) or do I just carry on and hope that things go on....
The other problem is we live an hour from each other he is away every Fri - Mon with his son (doesn't leave many nights to get together). I also have my girls home over the Christmas hols so won't see him much then. I am sure there are other couples in the same situation who go through all of this! I am an emotional wreck at the moment......He is just such a nice guy, and I can't stop thinking about him....we are both massively attracted to each other.....
Oh yes he is also 11 years younger than me....
I have lost 6lbs this week due to my emotional state, I don't feel like eating and am forcing myself to eat small amounts.....
Any advice please on my situation......Jx
There has been a guy on my training whom I have had a lot of chemistry with, we really hit it off and have kind of been seeing each other, I have just become besotted with him, (like a flippin teenager, its ridiculous).....However he also split with his ex earlier this year and has a son, whom he travels a long way to see every weekend....It seems that he is struggling, as he had intended to get his life sorted out, including his career and had promised himself not to get involved with anyone for a while....Neither of us was looking for this it just happened......He has explained he can't keep his mind off me but isn't sure what he wants right now.....I can't believe after such a short period of time knowing him how much this is hurting me.....
I guess I just got involved too soon after my seperation.....I was getting on track and have always been a happy go lucky kind of girl, but also a sensitive soul....I don't know what to do....
I am wondering, do I just break it up and try and get over it asap, (this would hurt so much) or do I just carry on and hope that things go on....
The other problem is we live an hour from each other he is away every Fri - Mon with his son (doesn't leave many nights to get together). I also have my girls home over the Christmas hols so won't see him much then. I am sure there are other couples in the same situation who go through all of this! I am an emotional wreck at the moment......He is just such a nice guy, and I can't stop thinking about him....we are both massively attracted to each other.....
Oh yes he is also 11 years younger than me....
I have lost 6lbs this week due to my emotional state, I don't feel like eating and am forcing myself to eat small amounts.....
Any advice please on my situation......Jx