assj
Silver Member
i am getting very annoyed with the everyday struggle and battle with my grandmother, i do not want to pass on my bad eating habits to my daughter. i try and keep her diet varied and make new things for her to try and never make her finish her plate if she leaves food it doesnt matter. however i am in constant battle with my grandmother, when i give her something like spinich and tuna with pasta or gnochi she turns her nose up and says deliberatly to my daughter, "eeee you dont want to eat that crap do you!" and she is always telling me not to make that crap again, its not crap fgs its a healthy meal. everytime i go there shes asking me every 2 mins "can she have a biscuit can she have a chocolate" and when i say no she has a go at me, "its not going to hurt her you use to have it all the time" yeah and look at me now. everytime my nan has her lunch she gives half of it to my daughter, whether its a sandwich, sausage rolls, chips, whatever, so when it comes to eating her own lunch shes too full and doesnt get the benefit of having the healthy balanced meal i have prepared, yesterday she tried to give her biscuits before her lunch i said no, so halfway through her eating her lunch i see her coming out of the kitchen with a bisuit in each hand and also a cake!!!!, so she wouldnt finish her lunch.
all i am trying to do is make sure she doesnt have the problems i have had and it just feels like people are against me for doing it, people seem to think i am mad for giving her a balanced diet, what can i do to make them see that they are wrong?:cry::cry:
all i am trying to do is make sure she doesnt have the problems i have had and it just feels like people are against me for doing it, people seem to think i am mad for giving her a balanced diet, what can i do to make them see that they are wrong?:cry::cry: