gonabslim79
Full Member
Hi Guys,
I just want to have a little moan and see if there is anybody else out there in the same boat or am i just thinking about it too much!
Me and the OH have started trying this month. we both work full time, his day starts at 430am and he gets back at 5ish the same time as me. so we are both pooped during the week, so making love time is usually the weekend. but then we dont want it to be a routine thing so some times we dont do it 'every' weekend! so it could be 2 weeks until we do it again. sometimes i get stroppy if we dont do it and have all sorts of things going through my head cos we havent.
but now i have come off the pill i feel that we should be doing it more now!! i had my fertile part of my cycle last weekend. we did it on wednesday night (which was very unusal) i tried my luck and he was up for it. then we did it again sunday morning.
I wanted to again last night but was thinking 'am i doing it because i want it or cos i want a baby' and got it in my head we have to do it all the time!! arrgghh!!! i dont want him to feel like a sex machine!! lol.
Its getting me down, i went to bed early last night cos i was tired. but then was wide awake when oh came to bed. then was awake tossing and turning all blooming night, just thinking about blooming babies!!!
I even did a test this morning!! i knew it wouldnt show anything cos it must be too early. my period is due a week on monday.
I am really hoping that i can feel better about this. I should be enjoying the 'trying' really!!
Thanks
I just want to have a little moan and see if there is anybody else out there in the same boat or am i just thinking about it too much!
Me and the OH have started trying this month. we both work full time, his day starts at 430am and he gets back at 5ish the same time as me. so we are both pooped during the week, so making love time is usually the weekend. but then we dont want it to be a routine thing so some times we dont do it 'every' weekend! so it could be 2 weeks until we do it again. sometimes i get stroppy if we dont do it and have all sorts of things going through my head cos we havent.
but now i have come off the pill i feel that we should be doing it more now!! i had my fertile part of my cycle last weekend. we did it on wednesday night (which was very unusal) i tried my luck and he was up for it. then we did it again sunday morning.
I wanted to again last night but was thinking 'am i doing it because i want it or cos i want a baby' and got it in my head we have to do it all the time!! arrgghh!!! i dont want him to feel like a sex machine!! lol.
Its getting me down, i went to bed early last night cos i was tired. but then was wide awake when oh came to bed. then was awake tossing and turning all blooming night, just thinking about blooming babies!!!
I even did a test this morning!! i knew it wouldnt show anything cos it must be too early. my period is due a week on monday.
I am really hoping that i can feel better about this. I should be enjoying the 'trying' really!!
Thanks